When I was drinking I had HORRIFIC hangovers and despite these hangovers, I drank time and time again. It has been so long since I have had a hangover, I almost forgot what it was like……. Emotional hangovers are good reminders….
In sobriety, I occasionally experience the ‘emotional hangover’. It has been quite a while, but I have been suffering from one ALL weekend!
What is an emotional hangover? According to Urban Dictionary an emotional hangover is:
The feeling you wake up with in the morning after an emotional breakdown from the night before. This feeling is sometimes a result from an argument, a deep sadness, an unfortunate loss, a break-up, drama, strong feelings of regret, conflicting emotions, etc.
What do you do for your emotional hangovers? Me? I stew in it for days, feeling sick and miserable before I even realize what is going on. Once realized my current ‘hangover’ was DRAMA related I had my solutions:
- I get to reflect on myself and my behavior – the spot check inventory.….. Step 10, “…every time we are disturbed, no matter what the cause, there is something wrong with us.” -pg. 90 12&12.
- I have a choice: to remain in the negative, emotional situation OR not to participate in the drama…. Today I choose not to participate. IT IS NOT WORTH IT!
It never ceases to amaze me how close the emotional hangover feels to that of my drinking days…. I hate the feeling… I am blessed that I know the solution! Even if it takes a few days to remember… 🙂
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